Love Is Actually Quite Boring. And I Think That’s Beautiful.

Why Miamora exists, where it started, and why I think the ordinary parts of a relationship are often the ones worth remembering.

By Gwen | Miamora Magazines

Not exactly the opening line you'd expect from someone who has just started a business dedicated to telling love stories.

But hear me out.

We're surrounded by versions of love designed to make us feel something in ten seconds.

The grand proposal. The perfect anniversary surprise. The airport reunion. The ridiculously romantic film scene where someone runs through the rain to declare their undying love while the rest of us are wondering why they didn't just send a text.

And I love all of that stuff.

I'm a massive film person. I love a good love story. And, unfortunately for everyone around me, I love the sentimental stuff!

But I don't think that's where the best bits of a relationship actually are.

I think they're in the boring bits.

The bit nobody puts in the movies

Real love is choosing someone again and again.

It's compromise. It's communication.

It's knowing exactly how they take their coffee. Sitting next to each other doing absolutely nothing. Knowing when something's wrong before they've said it.

It's remembering something they mentioned three months ago.

Laughing about the same stupid joke for the hundredth time.

Having an argument, working through it and still choosing to be a team.

It's seeing someone at their best, their worst and every incredibly ordinary version in between.

There aren't always fireworks.

Sometimes there's just someone making you a cup of tea.

And I think that's quite lovely.

That's really where Miamora started

Before Miamora was a business, it was something I wanted for my own wedding.

I was proud of my relationship with my now-husband.

Not because we had some impossibly perfect love story, but because of everything we'd built together.

Relationships can be hard. They take communication, compromise and a lot of love. We'd experienced life together, grown together and got through things as a team.

When we got to our wedding, I didn't just want to celebrate the day we were getting married.

I wanted to celebrate everything that had brought us there.

So we made a magazine, the first Miamora magazine, that could be shared with all our wedding guests.

Looking back now, I actually wish I'd put even more into it. There are so many stories, photographs and tiny details I'd add if I could do it again.

But that's also part of the reason Miamora exists now.

I want other couples to have that.

Because we're forgetting how nice it is to slow down

We consume so much.

A ten-second TikTok.

An Instagram Story.

Swipe. Scroll. Next.

We're constantly seeing people's lives, but how often do we actually stop and take the time to tell our own stories properly?

That's what I love about a magazine.

You have to pick it up.

Sit down.

Turn the pages.

Read.

Laugh at a photograph you'd forgotten existed.

Remember something you hadn't thought about for years.

Maybe discover a story your partner has somehow never told you.

A Miamora Magazine is deliberately something a little slower.

It's a chance to stop for a minute, look back at everything you've built together and realise:

Wow, Look how far we've come.

I basically get paid to be nosy

Which, as it turns out, might be my ideal job.

I've always been creative. I've done a lot with film, I love movies and I've always been fascinated by people.

Everyone has a story.

Put me opposite a couple with a coffee and tell me how you met, and I'm happy.

I want to know about the first date.

I want to know who made the first move.

I want to know what you thought of each other.

I want the story everyone in the friendship group brings up after three drinks.

I want the running joke nobody else understands.

And yes, I want that photo.

I'm actually relatively introverted, which seems slightly ridiculous considering I've chosen a business that involves asking strangers about the intimate details of their relationships.

But I genuinely love watching someone light up when they start telling me about the person they love.

That's the bit I want to capture.

Then I get to turn it into something beautiful

This is probably why Miamora feels so right to me.

It's the perfect combination of the two things I love: Real people and creativity.

I get to listen to your stories, learn about the people around you, look through years of photographs and figure out all the little things that make the two of you you.

Then I get to turn it all into your own magazine.

There are no copy-and-paste templates.

One couple might have beautiful editorial pages about their proposal.

Another might need an entire page dedicated to the groom's questionable achievements on his stag do.

You might want childhood photographs, interviews with your parents, messages from your wedding party, your relationship timeline, your menu, your order of service or a page dedicated entirely to the dog.

Probably the dog, actually.

And then there's the cover.

Because seriously...

How many times in your life do you get to be on the cover of your own magazine?

And one day, I hope you find it again

This might actually be my favourite part of the whole idea.

Yes, your guests can read your magazine at the wedding. They can laugh at the photographs, read the stories and learn things about you they didn't know.

But ultimately, I make Miamora for you.

Because twenty years from now, I want you to pull your magazine from a shelf.

I want you to turn the pages and travel back in time.

Not just through photographs, but through words.

The way you spoke about each other.

The people who were around you.

The jokes you were making.

What you ate.

What you danced to.

What your best friend said about you.

The people you thanked.

The tiny details of your wedding day that would otherwise slowly disappear from memory.

A photograph can show you what something looked like.

A story can remind you what it felt like.

That's Miamora

It's not about pretending your relationship is perfect.

It's about recognising that your ordinary, funny, complicated, completely unique relationship is already worth celebrating.

Two people met.

Somehow, amongst billions of other people, they found each other.

They built something.

They chose each other.

And eventually they decided: Yep. You. For life.

I think that's a story worth telling.

So that's what I'm building Miamora around.

Real people. Real stories. Beautifully told.

And hopefully, one day, a whole lot of love stories sitting on bookshelves around the country.

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